Thank you for your responses...
Excellent Lodestar: Somethng you said hit home for me.
"i believe that one way to go is to try and live in the moment; do what you have to do for you and your daughter right now--in this moment"
I have recently been presented with a fantastic business opportunity to become part owner/general manager in a resort about an hour and a half from where we live now. I am very tempted to take the offer, but I am very nervous that if I do, I could be ruining a chance for reconciliation in the future. If I became part owner, I wouldn't just be able to move back here if he wanted to reconcile. He would have to move there?? Part of me thinks that if he really wanted us, that he would go wherever we are, and an hour and a half isn't that big of a deal. This opportunity would mean financal security for my daughter and I, but do I risk it..??I mean, he has made no promises whatsoever about reconciliation, but he also has no plans right now of filing for divorce. I have noticed little changes in him that indicate he might be missing me, but for now nothing has changed.
I really don't know what to do...What do you guys think??
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