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Originally Posted by Lonewolf  Remember though that there is always a power struggle going on at some level in relationships; being nice or submissive puts you in a weaker and losing position. By this I don't mean give up being gentlemanly, but rather keep your niceness in balance with what you actually want and keep in control of the situation at all times. |
I'm not ragging on you specifically but this is a common attitude I've noticed in the 'seduction community'. They're overly focused on who has the power and is 'one up' in a relationship. A lot of relationship advice they give is related to staying in control and keeping the upperhand.
Not to say you should let women walk all over you, but I'm sure a few guys have gone overboard with trying not to appear weak.