I've seen this a couple times in this forum - how to use IM to attract a certain person. I'll reiterate that to "use" IM to attract someone, i.e. make them love you is tantmount to trying to control someone. What kind of relatinoship would that be? I know it may burst your bubble but IM is only about your feelings and how what you generate in your feelings bring you closer to a goal. It's not about messing with someone else's feelings. However, IM can and does help you get clear on how you what to operate in a relationship and from there you will engage people that want to play the other side of the relationship. It may not be a specific person, (probably not), but (I hope) will be even more grand than wishing a certain person will return the feelings. I'm just starting to learn, no expert but that's what I think so far.
The Law of Allowance in Relationships - The Universe of Power