Also focus on the idea: if you're in a mindstate where you're checking her messages and feel like you can't trust her - you were right to break up with her for both of your sakes.
I understand, I was in the exact same type of situation, including me checking her email and voicemail. My ex may have been cheating on me, but if I was that far gone...that was my real problem. You've taken a concrete step - good for you! Keep focusing on this progress...and it is progress...and figure out what will make you the best person for ~you~. This is how I moved on from past heartbreaks, and ended up with a more beautiful, loving, intelligent woman than I had ever dreamed would be with me.
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