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And all of what you say may very well be true. But she shouldn't have to look to me, (or anyone else for that matter) to judge her actions.
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Does it really matter what she should be doing, or does it simply matter what she IS doing?
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But I think it seems to be requiring more 'balls' to resume communication and face what is hurting me.
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Really? I see black while your seeing white. This women hurt you, manipulated you and doesn't respect you yet you still give her part of your time and life because...your value JUDGEMENTS! In this particular case do you think they could be holding you back and even hurting you?
Why put yourself in a negative situation? For growth? Bah. Only one life, bro. Doesn't waste your time. Couldn't grow more and have more fun in a better situation?
I DO understand your wanting to prove to yourself that you can deal with this. Everyone prolly can--but, at the end of the day...it's more wise to cherry pick your battles.