Good question tc33, but you might be confusing two types of attraction. You got sexual attraction, and long term mate/marriage potential attraction. Short term attraction is looks, but much more importantly confidence. Why is confidence more important? My hypothesis is that, no matter how attractice a guy is, if he can't last that long in the bedroom or is insecure, he is not a great lover. Confidence is an indicator of reproductive abilities (possibly even penis size), so looks do count, just not quite as much.
Long term attraction is what you were sayinh tc33-education, sense of humor, exc. I think women feel that is easier to turn a confident (good sex) guy into an overall great guy, then it is to turn a super insecure guy into a great lover.
Just a hypothesis, so take it or leave it. I also have the intution that women are attracted (in the long term) to guys at high levels of consciousness, but I'm still ironing out the details on that one.
Good luck, and be confident!
Erock
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Last edited by Erock : 02-05-2007 at 04:15 AM.
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