[Wit and Itch]

Norbert
You said you read Chopra!
Chopra would say that there are no accidents in life, everything that happens, happens for a reason. Unusual events in our life are our signs, messages we need to understand.
Maybe you lost three very important people in your life because you need to learn to relay on yourself. Maybe your purpose in life is to help people who are grieving.

For heartache try crying. I lost my father and my brother in a same year, I cried until there was nothing but peace left in me.