You should not try to manifest love from a specific person. That person has their own free will, and if they do not want to be with you it is futile to try and intend for them to fall in love with you.
Your last sentence speaks clearly. You say that:
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however i really love this guy and i dont know if i can stand the thought of not being with him sometime in the future.
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You are limiting opportunities of other great men to be with you by focusing solely on him. The only reason that you are intent in being a relationship with him is because he is the only one in your life right now who fits the criteria that you want in a partner. It is entirely possible that there may be a person better suited for you who you are not aware of yet.
You are attached to him - meaning, you are attached to the outcome of him being your boyfriend/husband. You are limiting possibilities for yourself.
Focus on the ideal relationship that you want. Think about how you want an intimate relationship to be. Are there any specific qualities in a person you require? How do you want to feel when you are in your ideal relationship?