Alwaysloved,
The behavior you mentioned from your husband's daughter is not just being taking for granted, it's abusive. However if he tells her he or we have plans or aren't available to do it she becomes very angry and ugly to him. She has even had her daughter (his grandchild) tell him that he personally hurt her feelings,yelled at him,called him names,told him what a horrible father he is,told him that she will never let him she his grandchild,
I know you really can't do much to change things, it has to come from him. I hope that your husband will eventually set some boundaries with the daughter. It must be difficult for you to watch.
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