Derek,
Have you ever been alone for weeks anywhere? I was always looking forward to my move to another city but when I finally managed to do it, it was a shock. Then did I realize how important my current life is. I've tried it once again but it didn't work out that time either. Living alone is very unpleasant and demotivating. This is my experience and everybody is different of course. Listen to your heart, not your mind.
My overall experience is that it's not where you live but with who you live. Do they understand you? Do they feel what you feel? I think it's so important to have somebody who does but most of the people never did so they don't know that's the reason why they don't fit in or find their place in the world.
Hope this makes sense.
Regards,
Norbert
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