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Old 02-04-2007, 07:56 AM
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If I were you, I would stay out of it. Don't mediate. Let them meet each other without you.

If you take part, I would bet at some point one of them will accuse you of taking sides, whether it is true or not. And then you will be deeper into the mess. I would instead tell each of them that you are friends with both of them, and will remain so no matter what happens -- but you are staying out of it. Each will have to accept that you are friends with the other.

I'm embarrassed to admit that I was a feuding part of such a predicament. I dated a girl that had a mutual friend with me. And it ended UGLY (not my fault -- really ). I couldn't even stand the sound of the woman's name being uttered afterward, which made it really tough on our friend. It took me well over a year to "normalize" relations with the friend. And yes , I still hate the witch, six years later.

DON'T GET INVOLVED.
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