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blossom · 07-13-2009, 01:07 AM

Well, that's all I was asking in the first place, idoinspire!

I am introverted so I do tend to over-analyze...which is why I ask for outside help with it...did you read the first post...or just the last one where another person invited me to look for my own projections when all I asked for was whether I was taking it all too seriously or not?

Quest for balance: That is a good suggestion and I have done plenty of volunteer work for children with disbilities and people with mental health issues, and am in the process of applying to be an advocate for people with disabilities at the moment, so I'm onto that. I don't think I was making too big a deal about it...I just asked for some clarification,which I got...so I don't really NEED anymore input about the question I asked thankyou! And yes, they handle things a whole lot better than I do, to my shame. If you had read my post you would have read that I do have fun and play and do things I enjoy...and I STILL get told that I take things too seriously by people who aren't like me and don't understand me...that was the original crux of my frustration which I was venting more than anything! No it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of me, but I want to know if they are right or not so I can DO something about it! That was the point of me asking.

07-13-2009, 01:07 AM	#27 (permalink)
blossom Banned Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 3,897	Well, that's all I was asking in the first place, idoinspire! I am introverted so I do tend to over-analyze...which is why I ask for outside help with it...did you read the first post...or just the last one where another person invited me to look for my own projections when all I asked for was whether I was taking it all too seriously or not? Quest for balance: That is a good suggestion and I have done plenty of volunteer work for children with disbilities and people with mental health issues, and am in the process of applying to be an advocate for people with disabilities at the moment, so I'm onto that. I don't think I was making too big a deal about it...I just asked for some clarification,which I got...so I don't really NEED anymore input about the question I asked thankyou! And yes, they handle things a whole lot better than I do, to my shame. If you had read my post you would have read that I do have fun and play and do things I enjoy...and I STILL get told that I take things too seriously by people who aren't like me and don't understand me...that was the original crux of my frustration which I was venting more than anything! No it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of me, but I want to know if they are right or not so I can DO something about it! That was the point of me asking. Last edited by blossom; 07-13-2009 at 01:15 AM.