yea, daffy, i only wish i had the gumption to put sugar in her tank. that would be hilarity at it's best! lol!! and i did make the decision to not only erase her from my life, but helped others do the same. I went over to my friends house, where this person was living, and helped move her stuff out. It turns out she was not only casting hurtful spells, but had also stolen a significant amount of money from my friend to pay her bills. I was truly amazed at the cajones this person had. Unfortunately, they all still have to work with her, b/c she still has the nerve to show her face, but...
thanks for all the advice everyone, it is truly appreciated!!