[veranadine]

Much of desire comes from external stimuli and from misperception/miscommunication in the egoic (mortal) mind. Testing your desires against the spiritual (eternal) mind is a good way of knowing if it is a desire that is true for your divine self or is in fact "fake" as you say.

We recently channeled a video from a group of light beings called the Lullites in which they deal with this same type of issue. You can watch it for free here.

I wish you well in figuring out your own inner compass for these desires.