Thanks for the 'power of one' reminder ALG.
I listend to the audiobook nonstop for like a month.
good stuff.
Although his voice is so mellow I wouldn't reccomend listening while operating heavy machinery, you might doze off....
I have found what you said to be exactly the case.
I used ot have a belief that I was emotionally strong, smart, and cunning enough that I could overcome any problem that was thrown at me.
Can anyone spot the flaw in that belief?
-To be those things I needed to have a constant flow of surmountable problems in my life.
Once I realised it, and now I am mostly rid of it, my life has become amazingly smooth. It is gaining a huge amount of momentum, but the hills i used to experience, and that I used to
need to be strong to deal with, are virtually gone.
I had one crop up the other day, first in a while, and I started to get back into my old habits, but I caught myself and relaxed and didn't resist it.
What happened? I didn't need to do anything. Someone else came out of nowhere and fixed it for me.
Stop resisting, start enjoying.