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Annemarie · 07-09-2009, 10:40 AM

I’m not doing research; I’m not writing an essay. I’m just gathering opinions, simply to broaden my horizon on this matter.

Now, there are a certain number of basic questions I’d like answered, either by “yes”, “no”, “no comment” or a detailed answer (that would be most welcomed). Other than that, feel free to add anything you want.

1. What is your definition of cheating?
2. Are there grades to cheating or all forms of cheating are equal?
3. Have you ever cheated?
4. Have you ever been cheated?
5. Which of the above is easier to forgive?
6. Which of the above would break the relationship?
7. Which gender is most likely to cheat?
8. What would be a reason for cheating?
9. What would be YOUR reason for cheating?
10. What would be a reason not to cheat?
11. What would be YOUR reason not to cheat?
12. Would love make any difference?
13. Would marriage make any difference?
14. Would children make any difference?
15. Would gender make any difference *in how you see cheating*?
16. After cheating, is it better to tell the blunt truth or skilfully hide it?
17. Forgive or forget when it comes to cheating?
18. Pay back or pay it forward when it comes to cheating?
19. Name a situation in which cheating would not upset you.
20. Name a situation in which you would expect cheating to happen.
21. Does cheating create a precedent?
22. Is it possible to never cheat?

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Annemarie Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 24	Cheating - A Questionnaire I’m not doing research; I’m not writing an essay. I’m just gathering opinions, simply to broaden my horizon on this matter. Now, there are a certain number of basic questions I’d like answered, either by “yes”, “no”, “no comment” or a detailed answer (that would be most welcomed). Other than that, feel free to add anything you want. 1. What is your definition of cheating? 2. Are there grades to cheating or all forms of cheating are equal? 3. Have you ever cheated? 4. Have you ever been cheated? 5. Which of the above is easier to forgive? 6. Which of the above would break the relationship? 7. Which gender is most likely to cheat? 8. What would be a reason for cheating? 9. What would be YOUR reason for cheating? 10. What would be a reason not to cheat? 11. What would be YOUR reason not to cheat? 12. Would love make any difference? 13. Would marriage make any difference? 14. Would children make any difference? 15. Would gender make any difference in how you see cheating? 16. After cheating, is it better to tell the blunt truth or skilfully hide it? 17. Forgive or forget when it comes to cheating? 18. Pay back or pay it forward when it comes to cheating? 19. Name a situation in which cheating would not upset you. 20. Name a situation in which you would expect cheating to happen. 21. Does cheating create a precedent? 22. Is it possible to never cheat?