Diva,
I'd say go mediate and instead of having them try to come to a truce. Take control of the situation and make each of them see the beautiful qualities you mentioned about each of them. Don't let they're negativity rub off on you, instead focus on the spreading your positivity to them.
Let them know that you won't judge them on the actions they've taken against each other, because you see them for the loving and caring people they are. Bring up situations where they've been there for one and other.
A truce will just be an agreement that they will act civil towards one and other, but the negative energy will still be lingering and have an effect on everybody's mood. Get then to accept and forgive each other, by shifting their focus from the bad times to the good.
Hope that helps. |