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Originally Posted by Michelle  Wow, we are so lovey-dovey I can't even remember what we were disagreeing about  . |
Yes, Michelle, this just shows that on many levels we have some basic and
fundamental elements that make us humans and make us very similar, while
our values are what make us different, because these values are internally
generated by things we are not aware off, and this is why it is much more
effective to build your life around what is important to your personally, than
try to manipulate your values by trying to move them around.
This actually will never work, even though there are methods that suggest
to do this, and the main reason why this does not work is that these values
have to do with what we like and love and consider truly important.
A good example is trying to love somebody that you don't love or trying not
to love someone that you love. It can't be done. Because love is not
something we choose, there are a lot of things in life that we choose, but
love just like our values are not in this category. This is my opinion of
course, but if you try to love someone or something that you do not love,
it will not last for too long, temporarily, maybe, but this will be short-lived