I don't mean this as a personal attack on you but I think it's a real shame that you feel that way about porn. In all my past relationships, all my partners have been very open about porn and we've often watched it together and it has probably even spiced things up a bit. IMHO there is nothing wrong with porn or masturbation, In fact, it's something that you can both do together, masturbate each other while watching porn or try different things.
Personally I think there's nothing better than when a couple can share that level of intimacy without any embarrassment or shame. Just recently I got hold of the lovers guide DVD. Even though I don't have a girlfriend but I do have a friend and we both love having sex together and so we're both going to watch this DVD together to get some new ideas.
As a suggestion, why don't you surprise him one day and ask him to show you some of that lovely porn he enjoys so much. I think it will really help you both get more connected! Best of luck sweety! |