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Originally Posted by sallyfrieldam  Hi Matthew. Thanks for the thoughtful reply. I really understand what you mean by having an always on sexuality. Females have that too. I also totally agree with what you was saying about the raw passion and base sexuality, I enjoy all these form of sex. All these things I am totally for. As a single person I could easily get distracted by gorgeous guys.
The thing that bemuses me is the violence in porn. Why the name calling, why the ignoring of womens pleasure, why the desire to dominate? People try and tell me these things are intrinsict to sexuality and my real experience says that I can enjoy sex without violence.
I just wanted the original poster to know that there is a world where a man can love a woman sexually and it not involve him thinking about and maturbating to the thought of other people. I think it is reasonable to want to be with someone who loves you in thought and deed.
If you were in love with a woman and every day she looked at images of men that were better looking than you, richer, stronger, more manly and mastrubated to those images, would you be happy? |
I am guessing you have a very limited sampling, or got it all from the same source.
For fear of inciting wrath about their masogonystic society, I bring evidence piece 'A' Japanese Porn. A large percentage of Japanese porn -starts- with the girl being given an orgasm.
Evidence 'B' ... Gay porn would by that same rule be men degrading men.
Evidence 'C' Home porn. Usually this is fairly normal sex, with both partners having a good time.
As for the name calling etc. I have had women -ask- me to call them names and get a little rough.
As for violence, one ex partner used to leave bruises on me. Another would often make my back -bleed- with her nails. So it isn't just in the movies.
Taking the statement 'I don't like volence in sex' and extrapolating it out to 'all women therefore don't like violence in sex' is a bit of a stretch.