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Originally Posted by Michelle  Greater levels of joy and love plus a generous portion of fun (since I tend to be on the serious side). I want to get to the point where I can completely surrender myself to God/Source/Universe. |
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Originally Posted by orecle To help as many people as I can, be completely world class in what ever they lay their hands on. Peak performance coach. But I have to get to a world class level myself, before I can take others there |
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Originally Posted by alexplatups creating and running profitable businesses and ventures
2) creating and maintaining a lean, healthy body
3) creating and maintaining a genuinely loving, caring, supportive
and harmonius relationship with my wife
that's about it, everything else is secondary in my life, and does not really
matter, except of course, my three dogs (I do love them a lot) |
Well, there you go. Orecle, and alexplatups, your highest values are just not a match for Michelle's, so what motivates you simply doesn't motivate or inspire her.
Orecle, I think that's particularly helpful for you to know; as someone who is interested in coaching people to peak performance, it's important to work with what motivates the person you're coaching, not what motivates you, the coach. It's also very helpful for a coach to know what de-motivates your clients, too -- and in this case, from her responses so far, I'm guessing that Michelle may be demotivated by the approach you and alexplatups are using here (forget about feeling good; focus on discipline and cals in/out; you're wrong and you'd better do it my way). Does that sound about right, Michelle?