I believe porn is just an immature way of dealing with your sexuality.
I used to be addicted to it myself when I was younger and I remember what that was like. I think I'm the youngest person ever to have had an internet-porn-addiction. I started around 13 years ago when I was 12 and the internet wasn't even available to the public yet, so I
know what it's like. I've since learnt to deal with it and control myself, but I know what it is to be truly addicted to it.
I now have a boyfriend who watches porn a lot. At first I found it really hard to accept, but since then I've learnt to deal with the whole emotional effect it has on me. A few days ago however, I had a tough talk with my boyfriend and he responded by watching porn for 8 hours straight while I was at work the next day. After finding out about that, I realized that besides from any emotional problems I might have with it, my main problem is that it is immature and a waste of time.
It just really reminds of this problem I have with eating. I have real trouble eating big meals, I forget it a lot of the time and when I do eventually eat I really feel the need to eat so much fastfood so fast that my stomach hurts. I also often find myself snacking lots and lots of junkfood to still some hunger, only realizing after the fact that I'm really hungry for vitamins and that the junkfood doesn't help.
So if you take away all the emotional attachments, porn is like fastfood and good sex is like a healthy dinner. So the real question is, do you want to be with someone who eats fast food all the time and doesn't take care of his diet? I don't know ... maybe, but it's probably not so nice if he prefers a few candy bars over the three-course meal you've prepared for him
