Obviously Jane and Marie are more concerned with keeping their anger than actually seeking to reconcile.
Have you tried to mediate or bring the two together before? What came out of it?
Jane + Marie + You = Result
The variables in the equation have not changed. Jane and Marie still have the same thinking they had before. Do you really think there will be some sort of headway made just because it's occurring much later? On the contrary, I would think that because it has gone for this long that there some sort of disconnect. This disconnect cannot be repaired by you, it can only be repaired by themselves if they are sincerely willing to put this behind them. It is possible that you might put yourself in an uncomfortable situation with your friends. They might accuse you of taking sides or not understanding them.
Maybe you can try one last time to get them together again, but you know best if they will come with open hearts or not. If they do, it is entirely possible for this thing to be resolved. Regardless, as much as you try, it may not work because this is not your problem. You have tried as much as you can to try and repair the friendship. If they don't want to be friends with each other, that's their decision. Enjoy their company separately.
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