This reminds me of the German Proverb ~If one does not want to see, neither light nor glasses will help~
Odds are...that you do have something happen, when there is something positive to come. Problem is, that you only take note of the headache connected to negative things, because it interferes with your day and you notice it better.
Watch for the flutter in your ribcage.
(put the back of your hand against your open eye and blink rapidly...that fluttery tickly feeling...)
Or perhaps...if your head is the place where these things occur physically...you may take note the times where you feel a little lightheaded for no reason..(not a heavy gravity type of dizzy...but the "giddy teen crush" feeling inside your chest and head). Of course this is how it happens for me, and everyone is different.
I cannot recall where I read or heard this, but I am under the understanding that you can meditate and program yourself to receive signals a certain way, so that you know what it is, when you feel it. (or you can get into meditation and ask your body to show you what is the signal for something actually positive that is happening around you. Do it several times, for several nights, so that you can be positively sure and recognize it when it happens.)
Blessings,
Rebecca
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