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Old 07-05-2009, 06:00 AM   #15 (permalink)
machoman
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First of all, before getting any advice from this forum, I want you to never ever consider suicide in your life no matter how much difficulties you experience now.Better still I want you to post here by stating that you will never ever consider suicide as an option. Will you do it?

Okay on to giving any advice.First start off by asking a lot of questions about how you want to live your life, find out what interests you most by making a list of interests and prioritize them in the order of importance. Then do the things that are on the top of the list.

Next,believe that you can do it. To give Wayne Dyer advice from You will see it when you believe it, ''Work each day on your thoughts rather than concentrating on your behavior. It is your thinking that creates the feelings that you have and ultimately your actions as well ''

About setting goals
FIRST: As I told before, make a list of things that you want to accomplish and focus all your attention and energy on getting the top most in that list and go on until you got all those in that list.

SECOND:Rewrite your goals in the present tense each day. This is done so that it makes a indelible impression in your mind.

THIRD:Take atleast one action everyday that helps you to reach your goal no matter how small it is.

In undertaking this, one most common problem that people(including me)experience is procrastination. You can browse this forum as there more threads regarding this topic.

Atlast, I recommend you to read these books:
1. Unlimited Power by Anthony Robbins
2.Eat that Frog by Brian Tracy
3.Personal Development for Smart People by Steve Pavlina
4.Beyond Posiive Thinking by Robert Anthony
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