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Old 07-04-2009, 01:55 AM   #18 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Steve Pavlina View Post
You may fear that if you drop those friends, you won't attract new friends to replace them. Of course you will. But first you'll feel much better just being alone for a while. Most likely you'll feel relieved. That relief will lead to even more positive feelings, and from there you'll attract more empowering relationships.
I just can't rationalize cutting them out of my life completely. But it's probably inevitable.

I keep friendship and closeness away, people are attracted to me and enjoy being around me but I have these walls that won't let people hurt me, so I never take it to the next level, and it's isolated me. I want positive, happy people in my life. So I have to cultivate those qualities.
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