I was picked on alot in school, but I think this had a lot to do with my low self esteem at the time it can make you a very easy target. Over the years as I learnt more and more about myself and alot of the time in highschool I was always trying to be someone I wasn't I eventually started to respect myself and love who I am with that came confindence and I wouldn't say I'm the most attractive person I have suffered with rosacea nearly my whole adult life but people say I can light up a room because of my confindence in myself. I've got a very successful career and a happy personal life and thats only because I have believed in myself and my abilities you really can achieve anything if you put your mind to. One of the other key things I have learnt is to not worry about what others think of you human beings are going to judge you no matter what. If you believe in your song writing others will like it and so what if they don't your never going to please everyone.Do you like the songs you write? Then other people will too. And another point about self worth is that you can't expect people to like or love you if you dont love yourself.
Anyhow just my thoughts I think it comes down to the person I know people that are considered very socially attractive and have the exact same problems you have with low self esteem etc.
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