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Old 07-04-2009, 01:02 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by bluedragon View Post
...I don't even know if it's logical not to be afraid of dogs, since there is the possibility to be killed by them, but apparently, those who are not afraid never ever get attacked or barked at. So I guess for them, it is logical. I am not sure if this is an emotional problem or a mental one. But it is really interfering with my freedom of movement around the city. I wouldn't have the guts to go out after midnight and walk 2 blocks.

Anyone else has experience with this kind of thing and could offer some advice?
Dogs don't operate from logic, but from smell and body language. If you are afraid, they will move into attack mode. If you run away, it's even worse and you will probably get hurt.

You have noticed the truth. Those who are not afraid are not bothered. It is not logic, but scent.

I grew up with dogs and am not afraid. The way they resolve things is to test who has the biggest mouth. Did you ever see two dogs kind of "fighting" but not really biting, just holding their mouths open and growling and putting their teeth on each other, but not breaking the skin at all? They are just measuring.

If you are with people who are not afraid, you can practice yelling, or growling with the biggest growl you can muster, and use your arms to make your body look bigger, and kind of chase the dogs.

Now, if there is an alpha dog in group who makes a move toward you, the way you let him have his way is to look away from him and stop your forward (aggressive) moves. If you look down this is deferring to him and he will stop being aggressive toward you. However, don't be afraid. You are just signaling that you don't want to challenge him. Fear is always bad. That's why you're doing this with friends who are not afraid.

You just need practice in successful transit around the dog packs.

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