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Originally Posted by Michelle  Everyone who does a drug, whether that drug be food or heroine is looking to experience a certain sensation - relief from pain, inner peace - anything better than misery. There is nothing wrong with wanting to experience that while searching for other healthier ways to do the same. I believe anyone who wants to lay around should do so and I don't think laying around will kill you anymore than forcing sport on someone who hates it will.
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Hmmm, I don't know. I did that with oxy for 6 months after a horrible divorce and nothing else helped. Looking back I'm just not sure it was the right choice. But yes, I do agree somewhat, it's better than misery. I may just be somewhat brainwashed after hearing so many people now say - "wrong choice!".
I think the trick is to get weight loss to be the drug. Once I start seeing fat loss I start getting to a place where I feel like the most important thing in life is to get lean. Like everything will be perfect once I reach my goal.
Of course it's not true but it serves it's purpose.
I can say that when I finish a diet I always feel very satisfied, much more so than if I skip it. I always think - "wow this is great! Why was I resisting this? This is so much better than being able to eat fun food.
But I did skip this year so I know it's not easy. One thing I'm not doing though is worrying about it. Since I skipped it I'm not going to judge it or even think about it. That would be useless stress. It's good to talk on the subject but don't stress out, it's not worth it.
Although my opinion is not a factor, I've always thought curvy, full figured women are more attractive than skinny minnies.