i think to a certain extent it is true...
i know i always thought when some women complain about the problems they have being pretty or how insecure they are...i want to say, oh give me a break!...i want to know what it is like to have those problems just for a day!
but that is being unfair...because i am sure there are drawbacks that i cannot understand.
i am also sure there are pretty people who are getting by on their looks and are vapid as hell and perfectly happy doing so!
i do think that some people take whatever physical or appearance handicaps they feel they have and work really hard at honing their intellect, talent and skills and can have very successful, productive, happy lives.
it is really not fair to judge...i have known some women that are pretty and smart and i have wanted to hate them
...but ya know what...some of them are the sweetest most unassuming people who you cannot help but like and see beyond the external trappings...one of the nice surprises in life