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Originally Posted by Isis Kali  The big lesson that he's come to teach me is 1) I have to become more open, which is super hard for me because I've been hurt and abandoned many times, and 2) that I actually need someone who will give me space to just be alone, and won't be up under me. In other words, a LDR may be perfect. But, I would never have even been faced with solving those problems, if not for I-M.
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I can relate to this totally Isis. Thanks for sharing your story.
I believe that people in our lives are our teachers (Barbara de Angelis is the teacher in my life who first taught me this concept, and it has stuck with me since). He's there too teach you how to love again, and to show you that you are still capable of loving.
How nice, isn't it? I'm so happy for you
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Originally Posted by Future's Origin Focusing on the happiness inside the relationship will draw this person to you. Good luck to you, HTH. |
Future's origin, you've hit the nail on the head!!! Focus on the happiness inside the relationship! You know, so many people focus on making their partner love them more, instead of the happiness in the relationship, and usually they end up feeling miserable when their efforts turned futile.
Such wisdom... this forum is simply great!