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Old 07-02-2009, 07:38 PM   #240 (permalink)
Angela
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Originally Posted by Daffy Duck View Post
Don't we all ask for proof, even if we don't say it?

Let's make up an example. Angela, if I said that I, Daffy Duck, could teleport right in front of your eyes, but I refused to show you, would you really believe me? Would you really think I was being 100% honest?

And another one. If someone says they love you, but they continue to punch you in the face, would we really believe them?
No, just you.

If you told me you could teleport right in front of my eyes, I would be delighted by your belief. I would be interested and I would request that you demonstrate, but if you refused to demonstrate, I wouldn't call you a liar or assume you were lying. I would either be interested in getting into your model of the world and learning more, or I would not be interested and I'd let it go. One thing I wouldn't do: get upset or insulting. (In the past I might have, though.)

If it were you, personally, Daffy, my guess is that I'd go the former route. So maybe I could learn to be more like you, and get better at helping people get into my model of the world, and that would help me get the results I want: to help people feel good. There's a lot to learn here!

ps.... you and your face-punching images. I mean really.
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