[Aleksander Krstic]

Originally Posted by almost

I know some of you might think this is another reason, but I dont think so because she really helped me a lot the first year, helped me pass and get through things. But I want to marry my partner, been together for 2 years, shes traditional girl, so she wants everything serious or nothing If you know what I mean. But for me to be able to marry her, I need to learn her language (to be accepted by her parents), save up money, get a good job and get a good degree (again to be accepted), but all seems to be down the drain now.

You don't need to be accepted by any1 else than yourself.

My parents and siblings, im the oldest in the family, been a lab mice really, my parents keep pressuring me to do well, and I want to so there happy, plus I want to set a good example for the younger ones, but man, ive never been able to do anything I want! I dont know how am going to break it to them, or anyone else really.

Again, stop trying to prove yourself to others.

Im sorry I am I sound like a little boy right now, but im just having a moments of indecisiveness, I hope you lot can help. I just dont want to screw up anyones life.

You are not a little boy. And you are not going to screw any1's life.

Im worried more about the education/financial side of things at the moment, the problem is, the longer education is, the more money I spend, im willing that investment, but considering everything in its context I dont know what to do.

Im considering dropping out for my uni and going to another one, I dont know, I really need to do something.

I forgot the question I was going to ask now, well considering everything I said, can u lot please give me some words of wisdom because im going to need it, tomorrow might be getting my ass kicked or brain will be getting waves of negative energy from people around me.

I am in a mess I know, but I know there is a solution, just finding it hard to come up with some at the moment, i cant even sleep anymore these days, but i just need to do something!!!!

Your advices would be much appreciated, esp regarding the education/work part.

Thank you in advance again.

You might think you are going through hell, but this experience will only make you stronger.

Also, I've been through the same situation as you twice, only I'm in senior highschool, but I kept thinking positively and they let me forward because of my poor mental health and my disciplinary record(behavior).

I'm not saying they'll let you forward at an uni, but keep thinking positively and everything will turn out fine!