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Originally Posted by g5etbox  I wonder however if I am able to be strong enough or be allowed to have a close friend and lover? |
Aha. Another common error in the application of the Law of Attraction.
You need not strive to be strong, and you need not be strong. If you are strong, this means that something resists you, and you need strength to overcome it, or at least, not be overcome by it.
But the thing that resists you is, in the first place, created by yourself. If you did not energise it with your thoughts, if you are not sustaining it with your own thoughts - it would simply cease to be.
Therefore there would be no need for strength. There will be nothing to resist or fight against - and strength would not be necessary.
This follows from Abraham-Hicks' 2nd Law - the Law of Allowing.
What stops you from having a close friend or lover? As I had mentioned earlier - it is your guilt. Why do you feel you need strength? Because you feel you need strength to fight against your guilt. Why do you need to fight against your guilt?
Because you do not see. That the guilt is of your own creation. It is your painbody at work. (Errr, if that doesn't make sense, read this book - "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle).
Now understand that your guilt is created by your thoughts. If you like, your guilt is created by a certain pattern of electrical impulses moving in your brain. Change your thought ---> change your electrical impulses ---> no more guilt ---> no need for strength.
Then you will be Allowing the manifestation of your close friend/lover.