An important part of LOA, which isn't mentioned often is the action you need to take to put yourself in harmony with your goal.
You better be able to attract a specific person, or my quest (below) is for naught! Keeping them is a different story, but you can certainly get a meeting with them.
There is a good process you can go through to put yourself into a much better position to attract someone into your life.
In very simple terms.
Try to work out what sort of person they would date.
Compare that person honestly with yourself
Then set to work changing the things that don't line up
e.g. if you are chasing a very athletic girl, she is more likely to be interested in an equally athletic guy, rather than a coach potato - Time to join the track team.
If you are interested in a well read, intelligent girl on the debating team, she is more likely to be interested in a guy with similar tastes than a heavy metal punk band member.
All of these things work to bring you into alignment with your intention. Just thinking about it won't do it by itself.
I fear being smited for self advertising, but check out my blog, I just posted a long post about this exact subject yesterday and my plans to make it work for me.
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