I personally don't have a problem with porn. I watched a bit of it during my teens and eventually got bored. Okay, there's another penis going into another vagina. Oh, now it's going into a mouth. Woo hoo. To me, sex is not much of a sport for spectators... it's only good for players.
Porn can become a harmful addiction. Serial killer Ted Bundy was against porn. He said,
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"Pornography was a determining factor in my downfall. Somehow I became sexually attracted to young boys and I would fantasize about them naked. Certain bookstores offered sex education, photographic, or art books which occasionally contained pictures of nude boys. I purchased such books and used them to enhance my masturbatory fantasies.
"Finding and procuring sexually arousing materials became an obsession. For me, seeing pornography was lighting a fuse on a stick of dynamite. I became stimulated and had to gratify my urges or explode. All boys became mere sexual objects. My conscience was desensitized and my sexual appetite entirely controlled my actions."
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Ya know, some people can have a "healthy relationship" with porn and some can't. It's just like alcohol, in that sense.
Milena, what Johnny said is true. Orgasms for women depend on many factors which mostly have a lot to do with the woman herself. I've only had long-term partners (my shortest relationship was 1.5 years) and all of them were able to have orgasms within 5-10 minutes by intercourse alone. Of course, foreplay and all of the other stuff is great fun too. I agree that porn can form the wrong idea of sex in the minds of men, but again, it depends on the man.