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Originally Posted by Milena  Porn has created an entire generation of men who expect women to be hairless down there despite the discomfort and health risks. I'm gonna guess and say it's in the last 20 years or so that this has become "fashionable", and it all started from porn. |
With all due respect, Milena, shaving "down there" is not a new thing at all; consider the word "
merkin" which dates back to the mid 15th Century, and describes a pudenda hair-piece. The 'health risks' of which your speaking are unknown to me, although there is a substantially increased health risk to NOT shaving "down there", in the forms of sexually transmitted infections and parasites which can exist undetected under the fur.
What porn DID do in that regard was ENORMOUSLY increase the social acceptance and general palatability of oral sex. Prior to the '70s, cunnilingus was extremely uncommon in Puritanical cultures (like the U.S.), and finding a woman who would perform fellatio regularly was considered remarkable.
In the overwhelming majority of countries where pornography is outlawed, women have been HOLISTICALLY disempowered, and have few rights AT ALL.
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Originally Posted by Milena Porn also shows atypical routes to male and female arousal. If porn were realistic there would be at least an hour of foreplay before intercourse happened (for female orgasm to happen). |
Here you are projecting your own sexuality onto the rest of the world, unfairly. While for many women, particularly those in long-term committed/exclusive relationships, orgasms may require a good deal of foreplay and take a long time to achieve, many other women who engage in 'quickies' with new or occasional lovers do so because they DO reach climax very rapidly, often explicitly because of the enhanced intensity of the encounter.
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Originally Posted by Fredrik On the other hand, you also have men pictured with a 20 cm long rod that are far above the real average. Men are shown as much bigger than they really are, and this makes many believe that it is in fact average. It's a common thing to believe that one's penis is small when it is average, and that women will expect something bigger. |
Yup... MOST heterosexual men will virtually never see other mens' erections outside of porn, and therefore believe that what they have seen MUST be 'normal'. Fortunately for them, most WOMEN are delighted that their partners ARE closer to average!
Porn is generated to tantalize and to arouse, and everyone will have their own preference/fetish if they bother to explore it... and if they can find whatever they have developed a fondness for in videos out in the real world, then more power to them!
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