It's very true that women are often pictured as disempowered creatures with average breast cups not true to the average and hairless to the max. It's sad that this makes men expect the same in reality.
On the other hand, you also have men pictured with a 20 cm long rod that are far above the real average. Men are shown as much bigger than they really are, and this makes many believe that it is in fact average. It's a common thing to believe that one's penis is small when it is average, and that women will expect something bigger.
Porn is not very realistic either, since woman and man usually orgasm at the same time during intercourse after a very short amount of time (often). IRL it's common for females to take longer to orgasm and the parts need to be more creative.
Pornography does not have to be like that, but it sadly often is. I personally like to see porn as a place of fiction where our fantasies are lived out, and don't neccesarily see anything wrong with it except that it can create a very disturbed illusion.
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