My tip is to work SLOW but formulate a PLAN.
I say this because there are SOOO many people like you who want everything to change by tomorrow! But that's impossible. Change one thing at a time. Start with what's most unsatisfying in your life. Is it your relationships? If so, go to a store and get some Dale Carnegie. Read up on PUA articles. Look into fish oil treatment for social anxiety. Take action. Formulate a plan. Write down, starting tomorrow, what you're going to do to make this happen. Make one new friend a day. Read more and more social books. Join facebook. Then, once you feel satisfied in your relationships, go fix something else. One step at a time, like that Jordin Sparks song!
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