Well, I think of drama as a distraction, so I ask myself what I'm distracting myself from by participating in drama, which I seem to like to do.
See, I think it's not necessarily about things like other people's personality disorders. or fuel usage. With me, I think sometimes it's anything to distract, to stir things up so they don't become too, you know...clear.
Maybe things will seem too *empty* without drama to endlessly analyze (allowing my own responsibility for my life to loom up menacingly), so I either create it, or get tangled up with people who create it for me.
You can't analyze craziness, you can only let it go. You can only let it go if you take 100% responsibility for it.
Yeah, I've read the vampire books too, & it's entertaining to think how those evil others are out to get us.
But it's really never the other person. That's what I keep coming back to.
We all have one mind. That's the secret. Anything anyone else is capable of, I'm capable of also.
It's never the other person. Never. Craziness only comes to us if we're a good 'host.'
Once you decide to take 100% responsibility for the drama in your life, watch how quickly it disappears.
Last edited by Megan; 02-01-2007 at 05:04 AM.
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