I was getting clear right now on what I wanted from life so I did the following exercise. I grabbed a pen and paper and at the top of the paper wrote "I Don't Want" and proceeded to list all of the things that I don't want from life.
When you know what you don't want it's easier to know what you do want (it's just the opposite).
I leave you with Bobby McFerrin's song "Don't Worry - Be Happy"
YouTube - Bobby McFerrin - Don't Worry Be Happy