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Old 07-01-2009, 03:27 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by andrew112 View Post
The longer one abstains from pleasure, the greater the pleasure is when one does finally experience it.
This reminds me of that old joke about the guy who wears his shoes a size too small, for the pleasure of taking them off at night.

It just doesn't work that way, in my experience. The more I practice pleasure, the more it expands, and the deeper and more rewarding pleasure grows. Abstaining and then indulging have made it *seem* like more of a contrast, and it may have that longed-for pleasure occur as if it were greater, but I've seen that that's an illusion, and a limiting belief.

But that's just me. If success for you equals abstaining from pleasure and focusing on self-discipline, I'm behind you all the way.

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