| | The Old Lady, Under the Subjective Reality Model
In Steve's model, the old lady is an aspect of your own consciousness. (Everything else in your reality is also an aspect of your own consciousness). This idea alone provides guidance as to how you should treat the old lady. For how would you treat yourself? If you will treat yourself with love, care and respect, then that is how you should treat the old lady. BECAUSE ... she is you.
We see therefore that Steve's model leads us to universal love & compassion for all people in our reality. Because all of them are us; all of us are them; everyone is interconnected. It goes beyond "people", it applies to all things in reality.
As for a specific solution to the old lady scenario, I think under Steve's model, the trick is to study your own thoughts and try to identify what thoughts have created that scenario. Then you unravel those thoughts, while guided by your feelings of love, care and respect for the old lady.
STEVE PAVLINA, if you're reading this, please add comments if any.