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Old 06-29-2009, 08:20 PM   #2 (permalink)
Remiel
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Originally Posted by andrew112 View Post
Abstaining from pleasure and increasing self discipline = success. The more one abstains from pleasure and the more one increases disciplined habits the more successful one becomes.
Uhhh.... I'm just going to have to disagree with you here.
Increasing Self Discipline = Success, YES!
Abstaining from pleasure to achieve it? Hell No!

Pleasure can take many many forms and to me one of the best things I can do is the thing that I enjoy doing. Another thing, I've gone into a 100% increase self discipline at the cost of pleasure mode over 4 times now. Each time I've burned myself out. The longest I went with no pleasure was 1 week. It took me a week to recover. This last time I learned from my prior mistake but had to make another mistake. I gave myself 2 hours of me time and that seemed to work. I dropped it down to 1 hour and after a week and a half I burned myself out. It also took me a week to recover, just finished recovering from it today actually.

So my belief is that life without any sort of rest or fun is not a life worth living. Nor is it one that I can handle with my personality type (100% I in the DISC test).

If it works for you, great, I think. I just know it will never work for me. Also defeats the purpose of self discipline, doesn't it?
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