[Matthew Shea]

I disagree with you, Mind-On, in two respects. First, if we start to condone cheating, it can lead us straight down the proverbial slippery slope. The idea is that if cheating is acceptable, what else can we now get away with? Second, I'd say you have the problem of scantily dressed people stated backwards. The clothing people wear is not the cause of loose sexual behavior, but merely a symptom of loose sexual morals. The solution to cheating is not to cover women more. That's only masking a symptom and can, as Scott validly pointed out, become a source of excitement itself. The solution is for people to understand the pain they're causing and for them to truly, personally embrace a higher code of sexual behavior. This higher code should be more focused on the partner's needs and in ensuring that any negative aspects of sexuality are avoided. I think the true root of the problem is that people are too interested in their own gratification and are not concerned with the effects of their behavior.