Actually, clothing and how people are dressed has little to do with the problem. Women who are covered in a veil and can hardly be seen at all do not create any less of a sexual appetite in men than at any other time. In fact, if everyone in the world were without clothes all the time, nudity itself would be considered inherently non-sexual and nakedness and "revealing" clothing would be considered a non-issue.
Whatever the case, we determine our own choices and perceptions. Cheating in a relationships could happen for multiple reasons. One of those reasons is dishonesty. The best thing that everyone could do is be honest!
Myself, I believe that couples should be able to talk openly with each other about feelings they have for other people, and, correspondingly, should be able to make decisions of whether or not to pursue those feelings. Also, not everyone has the same moral grounds or moral integrity that everyone else has. Swingers are people who are out there, having sex with sometimes total strangers for fun. Some guys cheat and have sex with other women for the thrill of it. The fact of the matter is that it is just in human nature that some people will cheat on their girlfriends/boyfriends or spouses.
The best thing that anyone can do is be open and honest. One of the prime reasons people will not often tell their current partner they're with someone else or have been with someone else is for the fear of the reaction. A reaction that often times is an epic period of crying, tears, pain, depression, rage, you name it. People need to STOP reacting this way. The real thing to do is either break up with whoever cheated on you(yet another fear), or give them one more chance to be MORE HONEST in the future about what they're doing. |