Well Andy,
One of the best things I did was marry a guy who is easy going and happy. Additionally, I have learned to be grateful and appreciative of the blessings I have in life instead of the things I do not have. Many people strive for happiness as if it's a goal to achieve instead of an emotional state of mind.
In my case. I've found contentment and peace. My life is happier for it.
Kim
Self Improvement and Motivation
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