Hi Everyone,
It's been a while since I last posted and let me say BIG TIME THANK YOU to all of you!! Your advice has worked out magnificently, I've applied the suggestions and ideas you've all given me over the past month; Listening to the voice in my head, taking things one at a time, having clarity and focus, understanding habits and enjoying all of it
However
.... Something very unexpected happened, an exceptional girl stepped into my life; we've been going out for almost 2 month now and so many things are happening, and it's all moving so fast I honestly said don't know what to do, there are rarely times I stop thinking about her and even if I force myself to sit down and get to work, my mind always drifts off. It's the first time I'm going out with someone and it's all new to me.
So I'd like to ask, does the distraction ever wear off? I've had moments where everything is just perfect and I can go on full speed towards my goals but most the times I just can't stop thinking about her, my mind will just wonder off and it's already been two months. Sometimes I'll think about the rough times we've pulled through and otherwise I'm just floating away....and I'm afraid to say I could do this for all too long....I am moving towards my goals, but they're blurry and it's slow, her picture seems far clearer, it seems everything else is none existent at times. But I'd like to find a balance and be able to focus on other things as well. At the beginning I didn't bother and thought it'd wear off in time, which it kind of did, but it's been 2 months and I feel like I've lost myself a bit....
Is this normal? Does it wear off? Is there a way to gain some focus again?
I'd be thankful for any insights
