Don't think in terms of fair and unfair. And don't compair. I know it's easy to get yourself think like that in our country, I've been there myself. Otherwise I wouldn't be telling you this.Open yourself to new things.Don't settle.
Don't be affraid of change. Once you know where you're going, you'll call it GROWTH.
Here's an inspiring speech for you and all college graduates:
YouTube - Steve Jobs Stanford Commencement Speech 2005