I think it is natural that the interests of people, even best friends, drift apart over time. The key thing is to consider if what the real substance of the friendship is intact. That is a genuine desire of spending time with, helping, supporting, having fun with, and drawing support from is still mutual.
Sounds like your friend isn't very pleasant to be around lately. Before deciding your friend has become to negative to be around perhaps you should think about the possiblity of your friend being afraid you will leave them behind with all the improvments you've made. |